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ApologizeApproach the person laterBlock or report cyberbullyingBreak the cycleBystandersChange the subjectDefine your own self-worthDon’t pass on rumorsEmbrace your differencesFind true friendsFocus on your futureGet informedHelp a target get awayHelp someone feel valuedImagine how others feelInclude someone newInterrupt bullyingLearn from your mistakesListenLook at your own behaviorOffer sympathyPeople being bulliedPeople bullyingPost support onlineProtect othersQuestion rumorsQuestion the behaviorRealize it’s not about youRemove yourselfSet a good exampleSit with someone newSmall acts of kindnessStand up for yourselfStep out of cliquesSupport differencesTalk to someoneTell an adultTry new activitiesUnite with othersUse humorUse your influenceWhat parents can doWhat teachers can do
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